Stopped Whining

just last week, i was a mess trying to figure out how to please everyone and us.

today marks the start of a new era in our relationship.

i spilled my guts out to his parents this morning and didn't even have to try to make them see anything, because we were better than raised voices and knocking our antlers against each other.

so, in essence, it was a very good talk this morning.

but i emphatize with how his parents must feel today.

especially when their younger son, in the afternoon, announced another life-changing decision.

it was interesting to be caught in the middle of the cross-fire, though more importantly, i hoped my sharing of experiences and different perspective helped both parents and son see how they could help each other out.

in the end, i was more amazed at how i handled myself today.

i didn't even have to accommodate to anyone.

i was just me.

things could turn out perfect after all. =)